I think that everyone is titled to their opinion you could be either one you could be special or ordinary there is not really any certain way you have to be to be considered as 'OK' I don't think that there is a right not to be special or ordinary you can be either one I think you can be special in Europe and ordinary in the USA I mean whats the point of saying its OK to be special or ordinary in different countries there is no right telling you what is okay to be.